OurRelationship® is a flexible, interactive program for military couples that allows you and your partner to work through relationship challenges together through evidence-based online activities, with or without a coach. You can complete these activities on your own schedule, using your phone, computer or tablet, and have brief, weekly calls with a program coach at times that works for you — even if you’re deployed or long distance. OurRelationship® is tailored for active-duty, Guard and reserve couples, and is part of a full range of relationship support services offered through the Defense Department’s Military OneSource program.
Our studies have shown couples are more likely to complete the program (and get more out of it!) when they work with a coach.
Other couples don’t feel comfortable talking about their relationship with someone they don’t know.
Watch one couple’s experience using the OurRelationship program – as seen on CBS News.
You may be thinking, “This program sounds good, but how do I know it really works?” Good question! There are many online programs that promise incredible results, so what makes our program different?
People tell us asking their partner to do this program is the hardest part of this whole process! So, we’ve put together two ways to help get your partner on board.
You can choose one of two ways to get started:
* I have affirmative permission to share my partner’s email address with OurRelationship on my partner’s behalf.
I have recommended this program to a friend of mine whose husband is in the military and they don’t have time to go to an in-person program – so this was a great alternative
It's a good place to start and helps couples to begin looking at things in a deeper, more meaningful way
"When we started the program we were fighting daily. After completing the program, I have a new outlook on our relationship and we're able to communicate without fighting."
Military OneSource from the Defense Department is your 24/7 gateway to trusted information, resources and confidential help. When MilLife happens, it’s your “first line of support” — giving service members and military families tools to stay well and thrive. Military OneSource offers a range of free relationship services and resources to help military couples rebuild connections, reinvigorate bonds or work on key relationship skills. You can learn more about more options for relationship support, including confidential counseling at MilitaryOneSource.mil/RetheWe.